Earlier quoted context omitted.
> Russian elites absolutely value power over Western way of life some elites maybe, but their kids will only be after a couple of generations. It's one thing if you yourself cannot spend time in London but if your kids and relatives also cannot leave and buy a new iphone suddenly you have people to answer to.
There is something surreal about the idea that the war would end by taking away some rich kids' iPhones.
Those later generations are currently reaching prime age and they are leading comfortable shock-free life that just reinforces their understanding of how there can be no consequences for association with Putler.
It's clear that they are immune while if you are a regular person not associated with government and elites you are hurt by war and sanctions. So what do regular people do? Try to be associated with government and elites as best they can. How? By supporting whatever the government does.
I think you underestimate how simply a desire to have nice life and signal high status can change political outcomes