fairly simply fixed by making publicly available information (email address) not part of the process: - create an email address alias (random, unguessable) - change your login to use that email address - remove your phone number from Facebook There are many ways to do this (plus addressing, apple hide my email, account aliases, etc.) Pick your own approach.
Someone keeps trying to reset my Facebook password
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Re: Someone keeps trying to reset my Facebook password
#162I used to use an e-mail address a terrific domain name that I own. Without publicly disclosing specifics, it was like this: @ .com Thousands of people with this name, who didn't want to give out their real e-mail address, used this e-mail address when signing up for things online. They probably never thought it would be someone's actual address. I finally had to quit using it because of the tremendous amount of e-mai…
I could also choose to pwn his online betting, games, dating, and porn accounts any moment I want. I may or may not have changed his gender preferences on a dating site...
Re: Someone keeps trying to reset my Facebook password
#163I used to use an e-mail address a terrific domain name that I own. Without publicly disclosing specifics, it was like this: @ .com Thousands of people with this name, who didn't want to give out their real e-mail address, used this e-mail address when signing up for things online. They probably never thought it would be someone's actual address. I finally had to quit using it because of the tremendous amount of e-mai…
Re: Someone keeps trying to reset my Facebook password
#164I used to use an e-mail address a terrific domain name that I own. Without publicly disclosing specifics, it was like this: @ .com Thousands of people with this name, who didn't want to give out their real e-mail address, used this e-mail address when signing up for things online. They probably never thought it would be someone's actual address. I finally had to quit using it because of the tremendous amount of e-mai…
Re: Someone keeps trying to reset my Facebook password
#165Earlier quoted context omitted.
I thought they already have that? When trying to sign in to a Microsoft service it displays a number which I have to type in to the Microsoft Authenticator before I am able to confirm the sign in attempt.
You only get the push notification, no session binding, when using Microsoft Authenticator in other scenarios. That's if you get the push notification. It's variable in my experience. (I use it as a backup MFA method when I don't have my badge reader handy.)
It shows you a code when the initiator is an unfamiliar device, but doesn't show you the code when the initiator is a familiar device. You can reproduce this fairly easily - open a private tab and try to login - you'll see the code in your app. Then logout and login again without closing the tab - you won't see the code.
Which actually makes sense, if not well-explained to users.
Re: Someone keeps trying to reset my Facebook password
#166I was a PM at instagram in 2016 when we got a lot of these complaints from celebrities and short usernames. Some users were getting hundreds of reset emails/day triggered by random people in the world trying to reset their password. It's a really hard problem to solve because if these users actually forgot their password someday, they would really want those emails. We ended up creating a snooze for 30 days button at…
If websites made a concerted effort to train their users to not "remember passwords", this could eventually be solved. Human brains are not designed to remember: * Passwords that aren't reused across the many dozens/hundreds of logins a person typically has * Passwords that aren't easily guessed phrases including substrings of personal information (birthdays, children's names, etc) * Long and strongly random Yet good…
You can choose to substitute length for randomness. A long enough random sentence works quite well.
The hard bit is generating random sentences. I suppose you could use GPT to generate a sensible but random sentence, or just go old school and pick words from a large list and make a sentence with them.
Re: Someone keeps trying to reset my Facebook password
#167I was a PM at instagram in 2016 when we got a lot of these complaints from celebrities and short usernames. Some users were getting hundreds of reset emails/day triggered by random people in the world trying to reset their password. It's a really hard problem to solve because if these users actually forgot their password someday, they would really want those emails. We ended up creating a snooze for 30 days button at…
If websites made a concerted effort to train their users to not "remember passwords", this could eventually be solved. Human brains are not designed to remember: * Passwords that aren't reused across the many dozens/hundreds of logins a person typically has * Passwords that aren't easily guessed phrases including substrings of personal information (birthdays, children's names, etc) * Long and strongly random Yet good…
Re: Someone keeps trying to reset my Facebook password
#168Earlier quoted context omitted.
If websites made a concerted effort to train their users to not "remember passwords", this could eventually be solved. Human brains are not designed to remember: * Passwords that aren't reused across the many dozens/hundreds of logins a person typically has * Passwords that aren't easily guessed phrases including substrings of personal information (birthdays, children's names, etc) * Long and strongly random Yet good…
I personally feel password managers are convenience that bundles separate risks into a single point of failure.
Re: Someone keeps trying to reset my Facebook password
#169I used to use an e-mail address a terrific domain name that I own. Without publicly disclosing specifics, it was like this: @ .com Thousands of people with this name, who didn't want to give out their real e-mail address, used this e-mail address when signing up for things online. They probably never thought it would be someone's actual address. I finally had to quit using it because of the tremendous amount of e-mai…
firstname.lastname@gmail.com can have similar problems. Somehow people miscommunicate or misremember their email address and I get a lot of misdirected messages.
Re: Someone keeps trying to reset my Facebook password
#170I used to use an e-mail address a terrific domain name that I own. Without publicly disclosing specifics, it was like this: @ .com Thousands of people with this name, who didn't want to give out their real e-mail address, used this e-mail address when signing up for things online. They probably never thought it would be someone's actual address. I finally had to quit using it because of the tremendous amount of e-mai…
If you are bob@gmail.com or bob@yahoo.com, I am sorry about the decades worth of product offers, porn subscription offers, forum or blog reply notifications, etc.
Sorry Bob!