This is some strange notion of zero-knowledge. If Bob publishes his link, and I want to know who his crush is, I can simply try all our classmates' names and quickly find out that it's Alice. Those games only make at least a bit of sense when everybody enters their crush and only when matching both get notified. Also brute-forceable, but at least it's quadratic (if you suspect nothing about crushes, which is unrealis…
And when everyone is an actual adult, not a manchild or other people without a fully formed prefrontal cortex and thus prone to making ugly, life-changing decisions - for themselves and others - on a dime. That's most of the demographic for this product. The number of over-25 people, not in a committed relationship, who still haven't figured out how to ask people out, is pretty small.
This tool doesn't do what I'd want, but a tool that did would be kinda neat :)