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The worst part is the payment structure and how it doesn't allow real choice. If you told the 88 year old: "We can (a) pay $500,000 on treatments that will likely extend your life 1 year, or (b) put $250,000 in a tax-advantaged account to put your great-grandchildren through college", I bet that 99% of those 88 year olds would take option B and take hospice care instead. They would all prioritize their children, gran…
And in the rest of the non-nihilistic world those grandchildren would rather have one more year of grandma than any amount of money 15 years later. This whole discussion of letting seniors die to optimize economic potential is gross.
Not in families that have regular, frank discussions about death and quality of life.
My worst nightmare is having people in charge of my care who are unwilling to pull the plug. Doubly so if they are also paying for it.