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As pointed out below, quite a lot of that isn't in RAM - see "working set". There's a common noob complaint about "Linux using all my RAM!" where people are confused about the headline free/buffers numbers. If there's a reasonable chance data could be used again soon it's better to leave it in RAM; if the RAM is needed for something else, the current contents will get paged out. Having a chunk of RAM be genuinely una…
Of course it's doing something for you. Room to defrag other areas of RAM, room to load something new without moving something else out of the way first. Your perspective sounds like the concept that space in a room does nothing for you until/unless you cram it full of hoarded items.
Why would anyone buy a locker 5x the size of their needs ?