The main things that keeps me from relapsing are that California makes it really hard to smoke in public and that none of my friends smoke. I occasionally relapse when with some specific friends from a point in my past. Luckily we live far away from each other so the meetings are rare. The one other reason I don't just pick smoking back up by myself is how nasty my clothes (no hair left any more !) smell after a ciga…
Doubtless, this is more a city problem than it is a California problem. I spent most of my life in the suburbs far from any city downtowns growing up and I am truly grateful to have been able to relocate back to the quiet, leafy suburbs once again to start my family.
There are some things I miss about downtown, but the constant presence of second-hand smoke on the sidewalks everywhere is definitely not one of them.