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I'm not sure it's quite worst of both worlds. One of my company's local offices would be a 90ish minute commute. That's doable for a day a week but not really sustainable a lot more frequently than that. (I used to have another job with a similar commute; it was rough on a regular basis even if I didn't go in many days.) You can definitely increase the radius of where you can live but you're right that you can't go l…
Living in an outer suburb of the city where your office is located is still a lot less compelling than being able to live where you want though.
Certainly I could live wherever in the country I wanted to--though western US starts to become more difficult because of timezone differences to Europe--but no interest in moving at this point.