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It seems a lot of people have these stories, and then people like me and OP who have had btrfs survive the most fucked up situations (I've had a btrfs nas built on "random drives I've had lying around" and abused it for 5 years and had 0 bugs at all). I'm not sure what causes it, but there seems to be an effect where btrfs loves you or hates you and few people with mixed experiences regarding data loss. One possible…
I think the probable cause is that it's not common bugs that cause the corruption but uncommon ones. Most of the time, they work fine. But you really want a stronger guarantee than that out of your filesystem.
If things still get trashed then I tend to think that the very foundation of the FS is bad.
But maybe I'm just naive :)