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Your way of looking at it is perfectly sensible. But a sensible person might also say that a uniform prior over strategies is appropriate in the absence of any information about your opponent. Choice of priors is always going to be partly subjective, and reasonable people can make different choices. I would point out that in a real world scenario, a uniform prior is barely any less realistic than the a prior derived…
Do you think it's equally likely that a random opponent will redraw below 0.01 as it is that they will redraw below 0.5 or below phi? Most people do not give the right answer not because of philosophical issues around the Nash equilibrium but because they have a hard time understanding that looking to maximize the expected value is not optimal.
If random really means random, then that's presumably true by definition. If we're talking about an opponent randomly selected from a representative group of people, then no, but equally, I wouldn't assume that they're going to pick the golden ratio as their threshold either.
The thing is that maximizing the expected value is optimal in the absence of any information about the opponent's strategy. But sure, I can easily believe that many people would get the question wrong anyway.