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Re: Become unbannable from your email

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I've seen places that won't allow a "+" saying it's an invalid character.

I use PurelyMail to get email redirection with wildcard support. Costs $4/year when I use it with Gmail for the actual storage. I use an underscore so my addresses look like evidlo_[placholder]@example.com

So they don't charge for emails if they are forwarded? Do you have a link where they describe underscore aliases?

Re: Become unbannable from your email

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Doing this is worth it on sole reason you get to degoogle yourself (you can host email on iCloud+ plan).

What I’m slowly doing is staggering my addresses by importance - trying to separate personal from all the spam / registration / etc.

Saying that it’s probably been years since I used email to actually message someone.

Re: Become unbannable from your email

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I'm thinking about trying something similar to this on top of AWS SES. They make it fairly trivial to accept email and store it to S3. So email forwarding would be straight to S3 backup. But still would need a system to backup these emails to some local storage. Not sure what's the best way to handle this, I had my gmail account since the early days and it's baked into so many important accounts. It definitely crosse…

Just start going through your accounts gradually over several years and you won't experience much friction.

Re: Become unbannable from your email

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Been doing this for years, and surprised he didn't seem to mention the other benefit: "infinity" email addresses. Oh, rando burger spot wants an email for some free fries? Great, hit me up at randoburgerspot@"mydomain".com .

I do this, too - but I've been running into more and more companies that block you from using their company name in the email address. It also results in awkward conversations if you have to talk to staff. I had ordered some pet supplies online a while ago registered like this. Then I go in store more recently and they ask "Do you have an account with us?", I give them that email when asked, which causes them to paus…

Ohhh good point. So many sites basically only accept gmail + some other popular provider.

Re: Become unbannable from your email

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I do this, too - but I've been running into more and more companies that block you from using their company name in the email address. It also results in awkward conversations if you have to talk to staff. I had ordered some pet supplies online a while ago registered like this. Then I go in store more recently and they ask "Do you have an account with us?", I give them that email when asked, which causes them to paus…

That’s pretty funny. If you use a password manager you could obviously just put something random instead of the company name.

No try giving that email at the store.

Re: Become unbannable from your email

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post #37

Been doing this for years, and surprised he didn't seem to mention the other benefit: "infinity" email addresses. Oh, rando burger spot wants an email for some free fries? Great, hit me up at randoburgerspot@"mydomain".com .

I do this, too - but I've been running into more and more companies that block you from using their company name in the email address. It also results in awkward conversations if you have to talk to staff. I had ordered some pet supplies online a while ago registered like this. Then I go in store more recently and they ask "Do you have an account with us?", I give them that email when asked, which causes them to paus…

Same experience, but a different perception. I’ve always found it to be a great conversation starter when I did this with my business domain. Of course, it’s mainly about spam control, but some people even felt flattered to have their own personal email address. Then there was that one time I tried to open a new bank account using bankname@mydomain - it ended up involving three levels of management. On the bright side, though, they now greet me by name whenever I walk into the building.

Re: Become unbannable from your email

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

I do this, too - but I've been running into more and more companies that block you from using their company name in the email address. It also results in awkward conversations if you have to talk to staff. I had ordered some pet supplies online a while ago registered like this. Then I go in store more recently and they ask "Do you have an account with us?", I give them that email when asked, which causes them to paus…

Ohhh good point. So many sites basically only accept gmail + some other popular provider.

I‘m following this scheme for years now and frankly never found a site that only accepts selected providers.

Re: Become unbannable from your email

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Highly recommend mbsync/isync for backing up your email. Quite simple to set up for fastmail, gmail. Everyone recommends n+1 backups of everything else, why should your email be less deserving?

As a bonus, if you install notmuch you get quick offline searches and can "mine" your email with shell scripts (or easily share it with sam altman if you're into that kind of thing).

(Alternatively, if you prefer being GUI, just install Thunderbird – this can also download your full imap and give you local search. You don't even have to use Thunderbird for it to be useful as a backup; it's probably the easiest way to quickly become more independent from google randomly deciding your account should be locked, which does happen.)

Re: Become unbannable from your email

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There are online services where a bad actor can enter your email to automatically sign you up for hundreds, thousands of marketing emails. In the event that that happens, given that you have full control over the domain, you could just divert whatever @yourdomain.com to a black hole. What will happen when email attacks become more advanced--to the point of signing up thousands of different @yourdomain.com? What strat…

This happened to me! Can I go to these services and turn it off, like remove my name from these spam lists? Please point me to this.

About once a month I go and drop myself from the latest lists. There are many magazines and whatnot where you can sign someone up for 100+ mails a day. Only a very few of them send you a message you have to ack to start the flood. Most just start the firehose without checking.

I'd like to hear what other people do to address this.

Re: Become unbannable from your email

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post #8

There are online services where a bad actor can enter your email to automatically sign you up for hundreds, thousands of marketing emails. In the event that that happens, given that you have full control over the domain, you could just divert whatever @yourdomain.com to a black hole. What will happen when email attacks become more advanced--to the point of signing up thousands of different @yourdomain.com? What strat…

I already am in that situation. Like onions and Ogres, my email defense is in layers. 1. Specific known compromised TO addresses are sent to devnull. 2. Specific FROM senders are whitelisted. 3. Three or sometimes four heuristics engines evaluate. If any of them pass the mail, it goes to a separate new-senders inbox. I thus get maybe a dozen spam messages per week in that box - and five figures of messages rejected.…

Someone did this with my main real world Gmail address. I am still fighting it by periodically dropping from the spam lists I was recently added to.

We need a law that just like you are required to let people drop from a mailing list, there's a law requiring one ack or click on a link to join a list. I always get on legit lists that will stop once I request. But in a month I get 100+ new lists often sending me 10-50 messages a day.

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