You know you are a text editor enthusiast when you spend 60% of your time fiddling with your config, 30% of your time writing about it, and 10% of your time working on something useful/interesting. Just use VS Code.
After the initial setup phase where things were constantly added and tweaked, LSPs configured and so on I've not made any sweeping changes to the config in the last year and a half. I even changed jobs and languages halfway through and everything remained fairly consistent other than adding the new LSP.
Technical minimalism is a conscious choice, the same exact problem can come from vscode with fifty plugins and conflicting keybindings.