This. "Join my Discord" is a 100% hard pass for me. Every time I've made an exception, the entire experience is a net-negative. Half the time, I can't even get authenticated and then once I'm in, everything is awful. The notifications, the constant chatter, the dozens of topics, the useless search, it shocks me that anyone over the age of 14 uses it at all. Add to all the broken basics, the fact that your data is now…
Who cares? Why do you want to record every single thing forever? Do you write down every single thing when you converse with someone in real life?
And you really can't figure out how to use Discord, when a 14-year old apparently can? Maybe it's time to retire.