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It's not sarcasm. The fact that it's a library and you point it at a file matters, and should be thought about. It implies that it's not built for distributed systems. It's not supposed to be a managed service. It's not a good option for what you appear to want. You deploy it as part of your application.. it's a library.
> It's not a good option for what you appear to want. Ok but the article you're replying in the comments to says "SQLite is all you need for nearly everything", and what the comment you're replying to is describing is, to use their very apt word choice, entirely ordinary . So how do we square this circle of somebody being told both "SQLite is all you need for everything" and "it is not a good option for your totally…
edit: when I worked as a sysadmin we would have to schedule outages for updating apps that were designed for zero downtime anyways because those were the processes of the organisation.