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If you think they're lottery tickets - pick a better startup. Seriously. You shouldn't be joining startups unless you think they have a chance of liquidation for you. If you really do think they're worthless THEN JOIN FAANG.
The average time to exit is something like 8-10 years right now. Are you suggesting you can pick the startups founded over the last year or two that are going to have a big IPO in 2030?
That "carpool as a service" startup might have had a great business strategy up until a pandemic showed up. And if you're spending 8-10 years waiting for a payoff, you only get ~3 shots to pick correctly.