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French sign-off for formal letters: "Veuillez agréer, Monsieur, l'expression de mes sentiments les plus agréeables" (Please be so good as to accept, Sir, the expression of my warmest feelings) Well, that's what they told me at school - they were trying to teach me how to write business letters. It has always cracked me up. /me not French.

As a French person, two lines of valediction on paper letters is always funny, and yet required. Especially since the form should be adapted depending on whether you show respect for the person or not. I once wrote both an employee’s resignation and my acceptance for the conditions of it (on his request for both, he’s non-native), and it was awkward to try to find a valediction that doesn’t put him as inferior. Langu…

I had no idea that the form was supposed to be adapted, based on the nature of the relationship.

You can have a fairly good command of a foreign language, but still fail at communicating. You also need to understand cultural conventions and customs, and for that there's no substitute for living there.

I've never written a formal letter in French. I don't know why they sent me to school at all, really.

/me went to a French school, in France, for two years. When I was 4. I know French nursery rhymes.

Re: Closing email with “thanks” gets the most replies

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"&c" is the archaic form of "etc", the ampersand being a ligature of "et" - Latin for "and". As far as I can tell the "&c." version was popularized by the 1944 novel "Anna and the King of Siam". So it literally means "I am, etc.", which I assume only expands to "I am your humble and obedient servant" in a humorous way. Might be taken the wrong way.

Amusingly "ampersand" is derived from the time when it was the 27th letter of the alphabet just known as "and", one would recite the alphabet as "..., x, y, z, and, per se , and", contracted to ampersand.

That’s because “&” is a ligature (2 joined characters) of “e” and “t” and represented the Latin work “et” which means “and”.

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In the early days of email I would write to a lot of family members who were far away and were also connected to this new gizmo called "the internet". I of course would always sign off with "Love, NAME" as we're family. That muscle memory would randomly kick in at inconvenient times when I started using it for professional correspondence. Nobody said anything, but I can imagine the cocked eyebrows of someone receivin…

I didn't have this problem with emails, but with signing off on phone calls. The only people I spoke to on the phone growing up were family members. Probably confused a few telemarketers.

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I always decide between "Thanks," or "Regards,", or "Thanks and regards" or even the cringey "Thanks and best regards". It depends on the recipient and if I'm asking for something or giving advice.

One day I worry I'm going write an angry email to a group, then typo the sign off with "Retards," and send before I catch it...

Re: Closing email with “thanks” gets the most replies

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> I just don't think there's all that much difference in meaning between these common formulaic responses. My father agrees, and for a time his standard greeting to colleagues were these words: "Friendly Noise" I've tried it a few times. I get strange looks at first, but people adopt.

On moving to the UK and for the first time using English "full time" it took me longer than it should have to get used to "how are you?" as merely a "friendly noise". At first I found it incredibly rude how people would ask me a question and then keep walking while I stopped to start answering their question.

It has to say something about a society where we ask about someone's well-being with absolutely no intention (and often no interest) in receiving an answer.

Perhaps it was originally just superficial politeness as well, and so over time the process was abbreviated to match the empty intent.

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Me, when I started my career: Dear Bobby, Thank you for your email and response. I appreciate your prompt reply as always. Following the meeting with Jane at 2:00 P.M. PST, it is of my professional opinion that we… … Let me know when you get a chance for your thoughts and again appreciate your time. Thanks, Me — Me, today: Bob - Yes! Let’s rock and roll. Talk soon.

I always laugh a little when I get emails from someone still in college. They are so formal, even after I reply in a less formal manner. I don’t blame them as I did the same thing.

Yeah I advise early stage startups and they are either way too formal, or completely lacking in the basic understanding of how to communicate professionally.

Like it's either

"Dear Sir, I am writing to acknowledge that you RSVP'ed yes to our calendar invitation" or

"sorry about missing the meeting. we didn't end up making a power point, so we'll just send you a couple drawings our friend did of a different thing that's pretty close to what we were thinking of doing."

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I'm still pretty formal with new clients. It takes me years to leave out a valediction with some. But on the other hand, my favorite valediction is usually "Cheers," since it seems the most casual and least demanding. Still, I always worry this gives away the fact that I'm an alcoholic. My runner up is "Yours," which I see didn't make the list.

"Cheers" is my favorite too, even though I don't drink alcohol. Some people probably take it the wrong way, but whatever.

It never occurred to me that "cheers" as a closing has anything to do with alcohol.

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Anyone watch the show Corporate on Comedy Central. They had an episode where an employee's exclamation point key stop working, so all his Thanks! were just Thanks, so his coworkers thought he was being passive aggressive and looked for subtexts in his emails.

https://www.cc.com/episodes/yu0qm4/corporate-thanks-season-2...

>Matt’s broken “!” key strains his relationship with John and Kate, and Jake and Grace conspire to get rid of the office dog.

Re: Closing email with “thanks” gets the most replies

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If we're optimizing for response rate, how about "shove it up your ass"? That'll get a 100% response rate from your boss.

This is one of the funniest things I've read all week, bravo

The username packs a punch as well.
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