> Doing almost anything yourself feels impractical these days.
I would argue this is only the case because we've created an intentional social and skill gap in the industry between server administration and operations work and software development. My experiences, especially more recently, have been shocking in how little the average software developer knows about /very basic/ server administration. I don't have a full picture of why this is, but my gut is that part of the reason is that this type of work has become socially considered to be beneath software developers. They see it as the type of thing you're supposed to outsource, scut work for digital janitors, so they never bother learning it. There's definitely a growing sheen of disrespect in the industry towards those very valuable skills.
The outcome is, yes, it may feel impractical to do things yourself. The reality is, it's probably never been easier to do things yourself. Everything from the widespread availability of low cost enterprise-grade hardware to the plethora of virtualization technologies and associated low-cost hosting platforms means that doing things yourself has never been easier than it is today. Yet it feels so far away because software developers in our current time are no longer the tinkerers they once were, preferring to focus on abstractions over dig down into the dirt of reality.
I think the best way to resolve this challenge is for individual developers to come down from their horses and learn the basics of system administration and actually try this stuff out. You can learn nearly 80% of what there is to know about systems administration and operations with an Ubiquiti router, two Raspberry Pis, and Google given enough time. But so many devs would rather use dubious SaaS tools rather than learn how to host their own Gitlab instance or run their own CI pipeline in their closet.