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Perhaps a noob question but doesn't the browser ask for permission to use the microphone? And hence: they can't really listen in if you haven't given it explicitly.
If you attempted to record a video once with the Facebook app, it then has the microphone permissions forever.
In Firefox you can grant the permissions once (for the current page only) or grant them forever, your choice. If your browser doesn't offer that choice, that's a problem with your browser.
[Disclaimer: I work on Firefox.]