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28k for food and random living expenses is a lot of money unless you are eating out for every meal; that's more that some people's entire paycheck (like grad students.) If you can't make room for savings in there, it definitely shows a lack of priorities.
Well some people's priorities might involve having an active social life, dressing well, paying for entertainment, etc... all of which will be expensive. It's not a "lack" of priorities, it's just a different set of them.
Several simple ways I found to save money living in NYC (not SF, but close enough). Note these figures are on a per-year basis.
- Scrap web hosting, move to AWS and S3 (~120 saved)
- Get rid of cable, stick with cheap Internet (~1000 saved, Internet ~40/mo)
- One night less at the bar each week (~2500 saved, that's just for a $40 tab)
- Skip buying coffee every day (~500 saved)
- Get a cheaper phone package (~120 saved)
In the end, I think a good rule of thumb is to keep your daily expenses under $20. You want to dress well? Wait for Banana Republic to have a 40% off everything sale, and buy clothes then. Buy clothes you're actually going to wear more than once (this is easy for guys, women have it harder).I don't know your lifestyle or actually care what you spend money on, but complaining you can't save money is a bullshit excuse. I was bullshitting myself too, and I think everyone's got spending habits they can curb without impacting their lifestyle.