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Am I German or Autistic?

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Re: Am I German or Autistic?

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post #90

Regarding punctuality I miss the option: “A moral obligation from my side, but I don’t care if others arrive late to an appointment with me”

There's a quote in the Count of Monte Cristo where Edmond explains punctuality something to the effect: > Being early to an appointment is as rude as being late because you may be disturbing your host before they've taken all the efforts they require before your arrival ( VERY rough quote, the english translation is 100x more eloquent than my half-remembered version ) Edmond Dantès arrives exactly as the clock strike…

This is the Swiss stance.

Re: Am I German or Autistic?

#132

Earlier quoted context omitted.

>"Having lived in Germany and experienced the wonderful Deutche Bahn, I wouldn't really associate punctuality with being German." This is relative. In Germany, people complain when the train is late. Everywhere else, the train is just late.

> In Germany, people complain when the train is late. Everywhere else, the train is just late. You think people don't complain when the train is late in other countries? That's hardly a uniquely German thing

To be honest, I complain more often when the train is on time.

Re: Am I German or Autistic?

#133
post #90

Earlier quoted context omitted.

There's a quote in the Count of Monte Cristo where Edmond explains punctuality something to the effect: > Being early to an appointment is as rude as being late because you may be disturbing your host before they've taken all the efforts they require before your arrival ( VERY rough quote, the english translation is 100x more eloquent than my half-remembered version ) Edmond Dantès arrives exactly as the clock strike…

I guess the Brazilian take on this would be: "Being on time is rude because you may be disturbing your host before they’ve made all the preparations they need before your arrival. Being early would be an outrageous offense." It always amazes me how Brazilians and Germans can be so different when it comes to punctuality and yet so similar when it comes to their love of bureaucracy (and devotion to soccer, for that mat…

In the Brazilian case, it is not so much "love of bureaucracy" but rather "bureaucracy as a protection against private capture of public goods and services".

Re: Am I German or Autistic?

#134

Regarding punctuality I miss the option: “A moral obligation from my side, but I don’t care if others arrive late to an appointment with me”

I fully agree with this sentiment. I set a high standard for my punctuality but I don't care if you're late. I just silently judge you.

Unless I care about the meeting it gives me an easy way out. More than 5 minutes late in that case is "let's try it again another time"

Re: Am I German or Autistic?

#135
post #61
post #55

The test doesn't follow the correct procedures for diagnosing autism and after a thorough reading of the DSM-5-TR I could find no mention of German a mental illness being and I challenge anyone to me wrong prove.

It's obvious Claude slop, a stupid meme for people who want to think they are special

I think it's just a funny joke, I found myself chuckling.

Re: Am I German or Autistic?

#137
Posting my result here in case you want to see the different results without redoing the test:

    German 47% - Autistic 47%
    
    Wittgenstein was Austrian, which is close enough. He was also, by most accounts, someone whose relationship to social convention was at best functional and at worst a     source of significant suffering to himself and everyone around him.
    
    He rewrote philosophy twice. The first time by establishing what could be said with precision. The second time by dismantling the assumption that precision was the     right goal in the first place. Both versions emerged from the same source: an absolute refusal to accept confusion as a resting state.
    
    You have, apparently, both the cultural formation that produces systematic people and the neurological substrate that makes systematic thinking feel like breathing.     This is either a significant advantage or an explanation for certain recurring difficulties in your life. Probably both.
    
    Schopenhauer also fits here. So does Ramanujan, though he wasn't German. The category isn't German or autistic — it's people for whom the gap between how things are     and how they ought to be is not an abstraction but a constant, low-grade irritation.

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    I took the German or Autistic diagnostic. Result: Both. The Wittgenstein Result. I don't know whether to be proud or concerned. https://german.millermanschool.com/

Re: Am I German or Autistic?

#138
post #70
post #50

Having lived in Germany and experienced the wonderful Deutche Bahn, I wouldn't really associate punctuality with being German.

Most of the German stereotypes are not just untrue, reality is actually the opposite. Germans are not efficient as an example, they love layers of formality and documentation for its own shake at the cost of getting stuff done.

As a German, after encountering Russian bureaucracy once, I commented to my wife that the main difference between Russian and German bureaucracy is that in Russia at least you can pay your way out.

Re: Am I German or Autistic?

#139

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I don't show you that I care would probably be more accurate.

Always a helpful and productive approach to solving interpersonal problems.

Me caring doesn’t need to be a problem for others. Should we all shout about our minor preferences and gripes all the time?

There are people like that, and they are exhausting. It’s essentially a selfish use of a communal good, which is the shared environment.

There’s a limit to silent annoyance, of course. But my officemate noisily ate a smelly egg breakfast every day and I just bided my time until I could move.

Re: Am I German or Autistic?

#140
post #67
post #50

Having lived in Germany and experienced the wonderful Deutche Bahn, I wouldn't really associate punctuality with being German.

Alas, the tendency to overgeneralize from isolated samples over whole populations is universally human.

Everyone does it.
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