We’ve used f# professionally for the computations-intensive parts of our product for a couple of years. Here’s what comes to mind:
1. Interop with C# is great, but interop for C# clients using an F# library is terrible. C# wants more explicit types, which can be quite hard for the F# authors to write, and downright impossible for C# programmers to figure out. You end up maintaining a C#-shell for your F# program, and sooner or later you find yourself doing “just a tiny feature” in the C# shell to avoid the hassle. Now you have a weird hybrid code base.
2. Dotnet ecosystem is comprehensive, you’ve got state-of-the web app frameworks, ORMs, what have you. But is all OOP, state abounds, referential equality is the norm. If you want to write Ocaml/F#, you don’t want to think like that. (And once you’ve used discriminated unions, C# error-handling seems like it belongs in the 1980’ies.)
3. The Microsoft toolchain is cool and smooth when it works, very hard to wrangle when it doesn’t. Seemingly simple things, like copying static files to output folders, require semi-archaic invocations in XML file. It’s about mindset: if development is clicking things in a GUI for you, Visual Studio is great (until it stubbornly refuses to do something) ; if you want more Unix/CLI approach, it can be done, and vscode, will sort of help you, but it’s awkward.
4. Compile-times used to be great, but are deteriorating for us. (This is both F# and C#.)
5. Perf was never a problem.
6. Light syntax (indentation defines block structure) is very nice until it isn’t; then you spend 45 minutes how to indent record updates. (Incidentally, “nice-until-it-isn’t” is a good headline for the whole dotnet ecosystem.
7. Testing is quite doable with dotnet frameworks, but awkward. Moreover. you’ll want something like quickcheck and maybe fuzzing; they exist, but again, awkward.
We’ve been looking at ocaml recently, and I don’t buy the framework/ecosystem argument. On the contrary, all the important stuff is there, and seems sometimes easier to use. Having written some experimental code in Ocaml, I think language ergonomics are better. It sort of makes sense: the Ocaml guys have had 35 years or so to make the language /nice/. I think they succeeded, at least writing feels, somehow, much more natural and much less inhibited than writing F#.