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Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?

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Re: Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?

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New simple “social network” idea:

Paste in a list of your interests (maybe use a list of subreddits you’re subscribed to, or you X inferred interest list)

And it will suggest people to chat with ranked by most common interests.

Could be a weekend project. Anyone want to team up?

Re: Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?

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post #78

Earlier quoted context omitted.

TikTok is the only app I’ve encountered that gets this right. I’ve made connections with people from my town and places just outside where I live. I’d love to see more apps do what TikTok does.

How does Tiktok do it? Edit: I meant how does Tiktok help person above meet people locally?

Is it a setting or something?

Re: Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?

#133

New simple “social network” idea: Paste in a list of your interests (maybe use a list of subreddits you’re subscribed to, or you X inferred interest list) And it will suggest people to chat with ranked by most common interests. Could be a weekend project. Anyone want to team up?

Neat idea. I think the challenge with social networks isn’t the technical implementation, but actually getting people to regularly engage with it.

Re: Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?

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post #122

>> “free speech” Does not belong in quotes.

Musk has a selective view of what free speech means. His view of free speech is different to the majority of people reading that article, seems reasonable to put quotes around it.

Is it? I always thought the uttermost definition of "Free speech" is that you have the right to have a stupid, ugly or wrong opinion? And as long as you don't violate any ToS (e.g. Hackernews, as a private enterprise or organization) or laws (kill XYZ type of people) you are within the rights of "free speech".

Re: Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?

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Can't be overstated how good having a setting centered on some common activity with low stakes social interaction is for building relationships, romantic as well as platonic. Hookup culture just isn't for everyone, and the notion that it is has been the cause of a lot of grief and agony.

The only downside is I got injured and lost like 20 pickleball friends. They were good friends but we only bonded around one activity.

Re: Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?

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I don't like how the article arbitrarily mixes seeking hobby mates with pursuing romantic interests. While practically both realms naturally border on each other an intersect it is important to set an initial semi-offical mode of expectations. Networks like Couchsurfing died because mostly men started to use it as an app for hooking up. And that just kills the vibe and also undermines the trust.

Anybody here from Germany who would share practical experiences with such apps?

I'm quite apprehensive of the idea that this is now how you meet people. Of course it doesn't necessarily have to be but myself being in my early forties, single, few friends, full time computer job have to say that it is a challenge.

Re: Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?

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Friend making wise, I’ve been trying to reach out to interesting sounding people on X and on Reddit.

I’m still trying to figure out how to sound casual and just interested in chatting and not having the first message sound too weird.

But I’ve made a couple friends and had a bunch of good chats.

I wish reddit, X, and even HN would be more encouraging of direct messaging people. That would mimic real world networking better where you’re usually breaking off into one on one or small groups.

Re: Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?

#138

New simple “social network” idea: Paste in a list of your interests (maybe use a list of subreddits you’re subscribed to, or you X inferred interest list) And it will suggest people to chat with ranked by most common interests. Could be a weekend project. Anyone want to team up?

Has been on my list for a long time. Would love to build it. Email in profile.

Re: Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?

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I remember when I used to play Go online. Obviously the servers, in addition to supporting playing Go and observing the games, had chat functionality.

The popular saying on the chats was "Give a man a chat server and he chats for a day. Give him a Go server and he chats for life."

Re: Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?

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post #106
post #74

Earlier quoted context omitted.

> People who go to bars specifically just to "pick up" are creepy. What does that mean?

That a lot of people go to bars to hang out with their friends, or especially hang out with their friends + meet some new friends of friends. And it's kind of weird to just go to a bar, alone, and try and find other lonely people to fuck for a single night. But hey, that's what some people are looking for.

I'd argue this isn't weird but anthropologically speaking the norm. This being considered "weird" in and off itself is more like a very recent social development.
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