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that begins with "Be kind. Don't be snarky. " I don't think that was snarky. You made some non-quantitative statements.
Those also end at their full stops, it's not 'you can act like an interrogator as long as it's not a snarky interrogator'.
asking for the numbers behind those subjective statements is totally in line with HN guidelines and traditions. It isn't "cross-examination."