I didn't say Autotools and CMake weren't awful, I said that approach exists for a reason. You seem not to understand; maybe it's my poor communication skills. And I don't appreciate being called "Linux people," because I am not one, thanks. Not sure why personal attacks are in play here.
The thing you're missing is that Bazel, Buck2, Zig, and all these things that do not require the compile-testing approach is they are not portable. They support Windows, MacOS, and Linux, by special-casing each platform, and even the Linux support is restricted to a few mainstream distros. This is a perfectly valid technical decision, and one I support, but it was not possible for decades.
Now people take Linux for granted, but until relatively recently you had dozens of almost-compatible Unix clones from dozens of vendors, of which Linux was but one. All of them had to be, essentially, written from scratch or based on a BSD release, with the differentiating features implemented on top by a given vendor. Since different developers had different interpretations and priorities for "Unix compatibility," this led to a combinatorial explosion of possible software configurations even just at the libc level, much less kernel API. The Single Unix Specification and POSIX standards were assembled to try to correct this, but there was no way to go back and un-differentiate all these Unix clones. So developers targeted SUS or POSIX, and mostly got what they needed, but something had to account for all the little differences that remained. This was the purpose of Autotools, and Cmake was written because Autotools sucked.
So, these things you're praising which avoid that whole scene, are able to do so because, for better or worse, Linux won. The other Unix clones have either completely died out (SCO Unix etc), are dying out quickly (Solaris etc), or have stabilized into their own distinct platforms (FreeBSD, MacOS, etc).
It has nothing to do with the build system. It has everything to do with platform consistency. That's why Plan 9 can do it without any build system beyond mk (a weird clone of Make), and why the FAANG companies can crank out build systems as get-me-promoted projects -- they're targeting three stable operating systems, instead of an uncountable number of weird almost-compatible monsters.
But again, from this terrible Unix scenery emerged a remarkably robust and portable set of tools (gcc, the gnu coreutils, etc) which became the de facto standard across all the Unix clones. People liked them because they worked the same on every Unix, and because (thanks to Autotools) they could build on every Unix. Because they had this versatile build system, when Linux came around the GNU tools were the easiest to port. Because they were the main tools running on Linux, and people had experience with them from other Unix clones, Linux adoption was quick and easy. And so it grew in popularity...
So yes, I mean "because of." It's easy to hate on complicated old rickety shit like Autotools, and I will be happy when I never have to deal with it again, but pretending it has no value and typing in "ewww" is needlessly dismissive and denies the actual importance this code had in getting us to a place where we can live without it.