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The big gap I would love to be solved is a, preferably selfhosted, browser based view into my notes. That way I could access my notes from computers you can't or won't install obsidian on. If it was open source that would be more likely to happen
Do you mean how your notes are connected, and organized? Otherwise, they are plain-text Markdown files. Any app that renders Markdown should be able to do it. In-fact, I don’t really like Obsidian on Mobile, so I use iA-Writer to edit/view the Markdown files that I managed with Obsidian on the Desktop.
Sure but I can't interact with them the same way as I do in Obsidian. It's an electron app so it's already heavy on the web based tech.
Currently I export my notes as a webpage and edit using my Nextcloud instance. It works, but it's not very nice.