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Wow, that you're seriously anthropomorphizing it while apparently understanding it moderately well shows just how wild a place we're going now. The thing isn't friendly or hostile. It's just echoing friendly-like and hostile-like behavior it sees. But hey, it might wind-up also echoing the behavior of sociopaths who keep in line through of blowing-up if challenged. Who knows?
AI research, much like evolution, is strongly in the camp that anthropomorphizing is rational; that human culture often fails to recognize this has more to do with a common intellectual pit that pop psychology and philosophy fall into: when something is clearly in error, it does not follow that it is in error. People often think they can safely critique general methods with specific examples, because the nature of th…
Evolution doesn't have opinions so it's not in a camp.
Human behaviors like reciprocity and consideration for feelings are indeed part of human collective behavior. Calling such behavior "rational" misses the point - such behavior exists and we have the benefit of social existence because of it and this bring us benefits collectively. But individual calculating purely individual benefit would naturally just fake social engagement - roughly such individuals are know as sociopaths and they can succeed individually being a detriment to society. Which is to say a social creature is a matter of rationality but simply evolutionary result.
Still, the one thing most people would say is irrational is trusting a sociopath. Now, a Chat bot is absolutely a thing programmed to mimic human social conventions. A view that anthropomorphizes a Chat bot doesn't see that the chat bot isn't going to be actually bounded by human conventions except accidentally or instrumentally, basically the same as trusting sociopath.