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Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash, suit says

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Re: Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash, suit says

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I dunno where you all are working but I've never worked on any software team that was exclusively white and male.

Of course, statistically speaking, it was probably only 80-90% white male.

Probably like 75% male.

But at most 25% white male.

Re: Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash, suit says

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that is because HR exists to protect the company, not the employee. it would be a big media storm if that aforementioned reverse thing happened.

By making that statement HR was definitely not protecting the company.

> By making that statement HR was definitely not protecting the company.

They couldn't have foreseen that this would blow up, but they almost certainly would have predicted company damage if they had NOT parroted the line about white male aggressors.

Re: Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash, suit says

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These stories leave a bad taste in my mouth. It hasn't yet gone to court, so the guys allegations could be really be anything from the God's honest truth all the way to a complete fabrication. Yet there is a huge amount of irreparable damage by public stories like this. I was once personally on the receiving end of a complete false sexual harassment allegation from a coworker almost at random (someone I had almost no…

Didn't want to post from my main account to avoid any references and trails. It goes beyond just sexual harassment at work. I was accused by my ex wife. Even before any trials or anything: I lost my job, banks, housing and pretty much anything that requires a background check. I fought this for a year, and everything was dropped, because her friend came as witnesses and explained how she and my ex wife planned on setting me up, because I asked for divorce after found out about afair. Even with all charges dropped, case sealed, I guess background agencies still have record of it, and I still get rejected. The whole guilty until proven otherwise can ruin anyone's life, and the accusor in my case walked away completely untouched.

Re: Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash, suit says

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post #84

In all honesty, if these things had happened to me, I would've kept quiet since most people won't believe a 20-something male. I was in high school when two of the girls (who were considered hot in our class) grouped me and rubbed their breasts against my back. When I told one of the lady teachers about the issue, she thought I was crazy and making things up.

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Ooh, this is gross. OP is describing sexual assault and you’re asking if they liked it. Your experiences are not the point.

Re: Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash, suit says

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post #96
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This is a terrible take. With your thought process anyone who is viewed as attractive is able to criminally interact with someone and, rather than viewed in a criminal/negative light, it should be taken as a positive experience?

Many young men back in my day were seeking an experience similiar to that, I'm wondering if things have changed. It's unwanted sexual contact that may be criminal not all sexual contact. It's someone you view as attractive not anyone who could be considered attractive.

Re: Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash, suit says

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> Probably worth noting this story was first published by the New York Post. Take that for what you will. Instead of an ad hominem dogwhistle, please describe how the paper's political leanings could bias its reporting here. At face value, it's workplace sexual assault allegations with a power imbalance.

I think OP might be pointing out the New York Post is seen as tabloidy

Ambiguous at best.

Tabloidy/political/all the same.

Re: Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash, suit says

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These stories leave a bad taste in my mouth. It hasn't yet gone to court, so the guys allegations could be really be anything from the God's honest truth all the way to a complete fabrication. Yet there is a huge amount of irreparable damage by public stories like this. I was once personally on the receiving end of a complete false sexual harassment allegation from a coworker almost at random (someone I had almost no…

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You've made the wrong takeaway. I was falsely accused of sexual assault by a woman. It has nothing to do with gender. It definitely can cut both ways.

Re: Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash, suit says

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The issue is instead of helping the women that actually need these laws, they are mostly exploited by a small minority of urban, educated women to their own ends.

Well, urban educated women need protections too. The bitter pill to swallow is that there are people of all sexes and demographics who are shitty out there and whatever set of laws there is will be exploited by them for their own ends. Someone's inevitably going to get the short end of the stick, because the government actually isn't and can't be all knowing. (And nearly inevitably it's the disempowed who get the sho…

But all the laws are doing is allowing entrenched corrupt interests including the police, judiciary and few others to use them to their benefit. At least some reforms have been announced by Indian Supreme court, otherwise I doubt these one sided laws would be considered legal in any other democratic country. Surprisingly reading cases in any of the Global North makes me doubt that is the case.

Re: Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash, suit says

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You've made the wrong takeaway. I was falsely accused of sexual assault by a woman. It has nothing to do with gender. It definitely can cut both ways.

It has everything to do with gender, she only made that accusation because of her gender. She would got away with no proof and end your career if you had no proof
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