Most of this is nonsense, but I'll point out a few things:
> "Infringement and damages are unrelated concepts"
No. They're the same concept. Infringement is okay if there are no damages. That's how a lawyer reads a contract. You're merely confusing types of damages. There are many ways to calculate damages. You're describing statutory damages. You usually run the calculation all ways, and take the greatest number which applies (but not always). That's how you might get into hundreds of thousands of dollars of damages for an MP3 collection.
> "unless you're sitting down with a lawyer (which let's face most open source projects are not)"
No, this isn't right. Most major free software projects do have access to lawyers. I've worked on several, and what I did was always reviewed by in-house counsel (and not just one organization). Even if there isn't a corporate sponsor, that's what a lot of the free software / open source not-for-profits do. I've had conversations with volunteer counsels too. Most minor projects generally won't need a sit-down session with a lawyer, but if they want access for whatever reason, it's not rocket science either:
1) Look into your social network. I have 3 or 4 lawyers who went to the same college I did. When I have a legal question, I do call them up. For something as simply as the nonsense you're spouting, any lawyer can set you straight.
2) If you are doing work at a company above a hundred people, it will have an in-house counsel. Shoot them a quick email. Most are friendly; that's what they're there for.
3) If you're not (1) or (2), you probably have someone like me in your network.
4) And if all else fails, you can go to the right meetup.
My experience is that for a volunteer project, open source, or similar, most lawyers are glad to chat.
> "Just read the damn license"
This is just about the worst advice on HN. Your options:
1) Read the license with a lawyer
2) Read the license as well as articles from actual lawyers about the license
3) Learn enough about law to read the license correctly.
You're misreading the licenses, and that's what's dangerous. It's kind of like referring people to WebMD over a doctor.