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Re: Facebook recommended that a psychiatrist’s patients friend each other

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You're not wrong. Does it seem likely, though? I mean, at this point you're asking Facebook to do something which is directly inimical to its interests, in that people opting out of "local friend discovery" truncates its social graph, or at least reduces the weights it can put on some edges, and thus makes its information less valuable for targeted advertising. It would be nice to imagine that the people who make suc…

> people opting out ... makes its information less valuable for targeted advertising I have very little sympathy for a business model based on surveillance and manipulation. Figuring out how to generate revenue is Facebook's problem. Lots of unethical behavior would be valuable in various business models. Facebook can police themselves or they eventually invite (probably less desirable) legislation crafted by pissed…

> I have very little sympathy for a business model based on surveillance and manipulation.

I have none whatsoever. But Facebook, as it is today, is a thing that is. I don't see that imagining the current state of affairs to be other than it is helps anything. I'm also not hugely in favor of looking to government for a solution to this problem, because the United States government, for all its many and various qualities, has an extremely poor track record on legislation related to technology, and I do not see any reason to imagine their response to Facebook would buck the trend. At best, it'll be ineffective in its stated aim. At worst, it will be that and also inimical to a lot of other businesses which don't actually belong in its crosshairs to begin with.

> I have nothing against revealing the private information of the people who insist on doing the same as a business model

This implies an inaccurate conception of Facebook's business model, which has really nothing to do with revealing private information in the way you describe. I don't think Facebook lies when it says that such disclosures are accidental. I don't think that honesty is any excuse here, but you seem to be imputing evil where there's no reason to believe any exists; the problem is not that Facebook schemes at inflicting misery, but that its financial drive to monopolize an ever larger swath of human interaction increasingly creates misery as a side effect. We can acknowledge this, and work to put an end to it, without erroneously painting anyone as a monster.

You claim, too, not to advocate physical harm, and to be in general a pacifist. Those are nice claims to make. I hope you don't find yourself in the position of having to defend them after a release of Facebook employees' personal information results in someone being SWATted, or driven to suicide, or otherwise assaulted, battered, murdered, or likewise mistreated, as a direct result of an action with which you say you see nothing wrong. You might protest at that time that your rhetoric is unrelated, and your responsibility nonexistent. After all, I'm sure you yourself would never actually dox anyone, even if you do say it's fine to do so. Such protestations are not likely to find many sympathetic interlocutors.

> We accomplish this with liability. Data needs to be toxic.

This is an excellent point! It deserves to be found in better company than you have given it here.

> Blaming the victim is never the right answer.

I invite you, quite seriously, to review my HN comments on the subject of Facebook - they are quite plentiful, you'll have no trouble finding them - and identify any case in which I may accurately be said to have blamed the victim. My entire perspective on this matter is what it is because I am a victim! How do you suggest anyone go about making any kind of beneficial change more likely, if no one recognizes the need for it? How do you suggest such recognition come into existence, if not by finding ways to explain to people that there is a problem? Would you rather just sit back and wait until there's enough of a critical mass, of people who've been chewed up and spat out by the gears of Facebook's advertising data generation machine, for a groundswell of public opinion to arise organically? That seems a bit cruel to me.

Re: Facebook recommended that a psychiatrist’s patients friend each other

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So, I deactivated my account maybe 6 months ago, and uninstalled the app long ago. Since then, I moved halfway across the country and, using a brand new laptop, a fake name and number, and a throwaway email address, created another profile so I could use their API. People You May Know still had old high school friends, my old real estate broker (??), and someone I starred on GitHub. I have absolutely no idea how they…

You're not using some kind of mobile router/dongle thing for network access are you?

Otherwise all that's left is you - how you type, click & otherwise use FB.

Edit: and the 1st thing the goddamn site shows me is a pop-up begging for a Like :\

Re: Facebook recommended that a psychiatrist’s patients friend each other

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Amazed that this 'feature' hasn't been killed yet. At this stage of Facebook's maturity, everybody finished adding their real friends about five years ago, and suggesting non-friends with tenuous connections to the user serves only to remind everyone what a privacy disaster Facebook is and generate bad press.

The other side of that argument is: You don't stop making friends & meeting people, why should Facebook stop suggesting people you might know? I moved out of state three years ago, most of the people I see & spend most of my time with a completely different than the people I did five years ago.

> You don't stop making friends & meeting people, why should Facebook stop suggesting people you might know?

If we've agreed to become Facebook friends then we've done it outside Facebook. If I use the "People you may know" feature I look like a stalker.

Re: Facebook recommended that a psychiatrist’s patients friend each other

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So, I deactivated my account maybe 6 months ago, and uninstalled the app long ago. Since then, I moved halfway across the country and, using a brand new laptop, a fake name and number, and a throwaway email address, created another profile so I could use their API. People You May Know still had old high school friends, my old real estate broker (??), and someone I starred on GitHub. I have absolutely no idea how they…

You're not using some kind of mobile router/dongle thing for network access are you? Otherwise all that's left is you - how you type, click & otherwise use FB. Edit: and the 1st thing the goddamn site shows me is a pop-up begging for a Like :\

> Otherwise all that's left is you - how you type, click & otherwise use FB.

Wow, that makes a lot of sense.

Welcome to the post-privacy era, I guess.

Re: Facebook recommended that a psychiatrist’s patients friend each other

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I normally reply to people who cart this argument out: "so you're ok with someone following you around with a camera videoing you? At work....in the toilet....in the bedroom...?" Privacy != doing something wrong.

A much clearer example is this article: "Going to a doctor for a mental health issue".

There's still a stigma, most places. It's a shame, and I wish there weren't, but there is. So it's not hard to see how that argument can have a hard time getting traction.

Re: Facebook recommended that a psychiatrist’s patients friend each other

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I think it's also quite likely that the psychiatrist's patients are searching for her profile just to checkout how's her personal life on FB which might give FB some clue as these people might know each other hence a friend suggestion. I do that sometimes to see some of my not-so-close friends.

I have a number of psychologist FB friends and every one that I know of has changed their name on FB to make it harder for patients to find them. Many go with FirstName MiddleName, some make up a last name, etc. That's not to say that it's impossible to find your therapist on FB, but I'd be really surprised if it's easy.

Interesting.

Re: Facebook recommended that a psychiatrist’s patients friend each other

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I regularly have people show up on my "People You May Know" that have no mutual friends with me, and I don't know them so they certainly don't have my email address or phone number. Oftentimes it's people who went to the same university as me, so I wonder if they base it on friends of friends of friends and other less direct connections.

Re: Facebook recommended that a psychiatrist’s patients friend each other

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So, I deactivated my account maybe 6 months ago, and uninstalled the app long ago. Since then, I moved halfway across the country and, using a brand new laptop, a fake name and number, and a throwaway email address, created another profile so I could use their API. People You May Know still had old high school friends, my old real estate broker (??), and someone I starred on GitHub. I have absolutely no idea how they…

You're not using some kind of mobile router/dongle thing for network access are you? Otherwise all that's left is you - how you type, click & otherwise use FB. Edit: and the 1st thing the goddamn site shows me is a pop-up begging for a Like :\

I'm not, in fact I'm using a different ISP entirely. You really think my behavior patterns are uniquely identifiable at FB's scale? I can't imagine how many other users must have similar typing/clicking/resting/etc. patterns.

Re: Facebook recommended that a psychiatrist’s patients friend each other

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Or just disable location access for the Facebook app.

Which works fine for iPhone owners, and on the 15% of Android devices running Marshmallow, in the relatively rare case where someone knows this can be done and acts upon that knowledge. Everybody else is hosed.

You can disable the location access entirely on Android, and enable temporarily only for the short moments when you really need it.

Most Androids have a slide-from-top quick menu when you can toggle it with one click. Honestly, Google Maps is the only app on my phone that really needs location access.

Re: Facebook recommended that a psychiatrist’s patients friend each other

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Amazed that this 'feature' hasn't been killed yet. At this stage of Facebook's maturity, everybody finished adding their real friends about five years ago, and suggesting non-friends with tenuous connections to the user serves only to remind everyone what a privacy disaster Facebook is and generate bad press.

> everybody finished adding their real friends about five years ago

Quite a lot of people were just old enough to get an account today.

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