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Right? I see this a lot and it's often an investors first response when asking for small seed rounds: "Well have you considered raising money internally? Ask around your friends and family". If I had friends and family that could just toss me a $250k I don't think I'd be in this position.
But they have to ask, because if the answer is no, that's a huge red flag. "You are willing to lose my money, but not your friends or family?"
If they expect someone else to do their job, I wouldn't want anything to do with them, anyway.
"You are willing to lose my money, but not your friends or family?"
"Yes. Because if I asked my family to fund a business venture, it would be something bland, low-risk, and low-return. Exactly the kind of things you guys can't stand funding."