TL;DR - no exceptions - no recursion - no malloc()/free() in the inner-loop
Has anyone else here banned exceptions (for the most part) in less critical settings (like a web app)? I feel like that's the way to go since you don't obscure control flow. I have also been considered adding assertions like TigerBeetle does https://github.com/tigerbeetle/tigerbeetle/blob/main/docs/TI...
Some large commercial software systems use C++ exceptions, though.
Until recently, pretty much all implementations seemed to have a global mutex on the throw path. With higher and higher core counts, the affordable throw rate in a process was getting surprisingly slow. But the lock is gone in GCC/libstdc++ with glibc. Hopefully the other implementations follow, so that we don't end up with yet another error handling scheme for C++.