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Heh, if I serve custom Japanese fonts we happily go into the megabyte range.
Adobe Fonts does a pretty crazy thing for East Asian fonts where they stream glyphs on demand to the page: https://helpx.adobe.com/fonts/using/dynamic-subsetting.html I've been keeping an eye out to see if there's been an equivalent FOSS solution but nada so far.
We used adobe fonts for a while, but I really wasn’t impressed.
Hundreds of dollars to buy a font it turned out we could only use through their hosted service.