Earlier quoted context omitted.
"I have never in my life length matched the two lines of a differential pair, including at 10 GHz. Never." - Rick Hartley https://youtu.be/QG0Apol-oj0?t=2765
It is right if you are only interested in making the damn thing work. But if you don't want it to broadcast noise like crazy you want it tight and matched as much as possible. The value of differential pair comes from the fact that they have constant common component. That only works if both components aren't shifted in time. If that happens, you will get strong common signal and say bye to nice quiet differential pa…
Or are you saying that the receiver won't do a good enough job cancelling common mode noise if you're not length matched? For that, I'd like to have a reference. Otherwise I'm not convinced this is more critical than the max skew to keep your crossings in the right region.