I don't get what you are trying to achieve with this discussion. You didn't provide any serious alternative, you just say that the issues don't matter to you.
Obviously, if you do not care about any of the features, then you should not be using bus1. But that does not mean that others don't care, so why are you objecting so strongly to us providing a solution to these problems?
Firstly, if you don't want a bus IPC with multicast messaging, then use something else. But if you DO want that, then you cannot ignore message ordering, that is the whole point (otherwise you could just use repeated unicast instead).
If you want message ordering you cannot split things into several daemons, or you break the order (unless you add some more communication on top). Same with p2p (side-channel) communication for FDs.
The broker is basically doing work on behalf of the sender, but without proper time-slice accounting it is not accounted accordingly. Obviously in many cases that does not matter, but you cannot simply ignore the problem if you want a general, lasting solution.
It is true that performance is not the main feature, but that is not to say that it does not matter at all (to anyone, ever), so you cannot simply brush it aside, proposing a solution that would have (almost by definition) hundreds of percent worse performance (as you are just doing more round-trips, even ignoring the context switching). To say that IPC latency is "not the bottle neck" only makes sense if you have a specific use-case in mind. With sufficiently low latency, we open up the possibility of using IPC for things that could only be done in-process today. This is not the MAIN purpose, but ignoring it is short-sighted.
I just got an email today from people asking about the LSM hooks, so there certainly is interest, and this (like the message order) is not something you can bolt on top.
I have not seen Linus comment on this, please give a link if you have. Whatever reservations he had about kdbus should not apply to bus1.
Look, there are plenty of things that could be improved on bus1, and I'm sure some careful review will find things we could and should do differently, but please at least spend more than five seconds looking into what we did and thinking about the problem. We want a multicast IPC system, but we want one done properly. You cannot simply say that doing one that is several times slower, doesn't do proper resource accounting, gets the message order wrong and cannot integrate with LSM is "good enough for me" and expect that to be the end of it.