Calculus can be taught to anyone independent of age. It is not a unit of difficulty. I think people are railing at teaching math to children because they themselves suck at math. Your inability to grasp subject matter is not proof that something is wrong or too hard. http://commonsensequantum.blogspot.com/2010/11/geometric-rep...
Seems the problem is those creating the curriculum likewise have a poor grasp of it and of how to present it to inexperienced minds. They know that "concepts" and "process" and "psychology" are important, but lack the Tufte- and Feynman-like grasp of how to present the complex in simple clear ways.
You see this in developing countries where the whole population is illiterate. It usually ends up that the children reach a level of proficiency that enables them to teach their parents.