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The company I work for is losing all of its humanity, I don't know where to go

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Re: The company I work for is losing all of its humanity, I don't know where to go

#111
If the company is losing all its humanity, leave.

I've done it twice. First when an $evil company aquired the place I worked, and the second time when an $evil company aquired the place I worked (the second one being Oracle and Sun, as described in the anthropomorphizing Ellison speech better than I can).

Re: The company I work for is losing all of its humanity, I don't know where to go

#112

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> You must look around and see the lack of men, and force yourself to become one. As a man I need you to expand on this because I'm trying to imagine what concrete actions you think "a man" would do in this circumstance, and of the things I've come up with the only one I think I'm allowed to say on this forum is "quit and find a new job."

Why complicate this? It's a well defined, harmless phrase. We don't have to pretend it's a touchy gender-related issue.

It clearly is not. Also the tone of this comment is at odds with site rules.

Re: The company I work for is losing all of its humanity, I don't know where to go

#113
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Yes, I guess investments, etc., but 1.5 years is a long time. I don't think I could go more than 2-3 months. Maybe I should start saving some money.

Location matters a LOT. The parent comment mentioned North America. This is huge. Tech salaries in Europe are half what they are in NA. In India, they're like 1/4 to 1/3. Saving is absolutely important, especially in such a layoff-ridden industry. You should really strive to get at least 6 months of living expenses into savings.

Most of Europe has social security and reasonable health care. Cities even have working transit systems. Living costs are massively different. I expect the costs in India will also be.

Not that it means you'll be raking in a lot of surplus money, but that's also not directly tied to the size of your salary.

Re: The company I work for is losing all of its humanity, I don't know where to go

#114

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Might be needed if your salary expense has to be charged back to various internal accounts or to external clients. My first job was salaried, but I had to fill out a time sheet so clients could be billed.

Filling out a time sheet and clocking in and out are two different things. I have to fill in a time sheet, but I never ever clock in and out. If someone clocks in and out, they don't need a timesheet. It's automatically recorded.

One would hope it's automatic, but no. There may be two or three sets of books you need to fill in many places.

Re: The company I work for is losing all of its humanity, I don't know where to go

#115

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> You must look around and see the lack of men, and force yourself to become one. As a man I need you to expand on this because I'm trying to imagine what concrete actions you think "a man" would do in this circumstance, and of the things I've come up with the only one I think I'm allowed to say on this forum is "quit and find a new job."

What do you mean, allowed to say on this forum? Who is around to stop you from saying what you mean? Is this some kind of dramatic display of your secondary status? What responsibility for you are you asking me to take?

> What do you mean, allowed to say on this forum?

This forum is ran by my fellow man, dang, who expects a certain level of decorum and discretion, and it would be ungentlemanly to act otherwise. A Real Man knows to keep his cards close to his chest. It's a violation of the Bro Code to say some stuff out loud, my dude.

> What responsibility for you are you asking me to take?

I'm asking you to explain what actions you think OP, as a Man, should take in this situation. Quit (quietly or loudly)? Refuse and get fired? Something else?

Re: The company I work for is losing all of its humanity, I don't know where to go

#116
This is a relationship question. Like any other relationship in your life that you might see early warning red flags or full-on toxicity right now, you have to consider if continuing to dedicate your limited time and energy to them is healthy for you. That a job takes up a very significant portion of a persons waking time, often as much or more than is given to family, friends, and romantic partners, then it is very important question to have a good answer to.

Re: The company I work for is losing all of its humanity, I don't know where to go

#117

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What do you mean, allowed to say on this forum? Who is around to stop you from saying what you mean? Is this some kind of dramatic display of your secondary status? What responsibility for you are you asking me to take?

> What do you mean, allowed to say on this forum? This forum is ran by my fellow man, dang, who expects a certain level of decorum and discretion, and it would be ungentlemanly to act otherwise. A Real Man knows to keep his cards close to his chest. It's a violation of the Bro Code to say some stuff out loud, my dude. > What responsibility for you are you asking me to take? I'm asking you to explain what actions you…

Your username and comment is soaked with a certain kind of negativity as you demand I take responsibility for my comment. Do you see that? I advise the blog author to do the opposite. I want him to look around and become the exact person that he looks at as an authority that stands tall and takes responsibility for their identity and their actions. He’ll meet resistance from people who can complain endlessly but never help or stop to think, but also much support from people who do help and need a strong and stable person. That’s what I recommend.

Re: The company I work for is losing all of its humanity, I don't know where to go

#118

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"Men" is colloquially used here to mean "decent people", "strong people", "principled people", etc. It's a generic positive description ("Be a man", "Man up"). Younger generations might bristle at this use of the word, and that's fine, but try to give the benefit of the doubt (in fact, it's a rule on HN).

As an older generation man, I've tried to understand the touchiness here. This is dangerous territory, so I hope you try to read my intent here, even if the packaging is not as strong as I want it to be. The best analogy I can come up with is the smurf village: Every smurf has an identity, describing a bunch of mannerism. Baker smurf, strong smurf, joke smurf ... The smurfette is both the only adult female and a sepa…

Thanks for the well written response. It should be pointed out that Smurfs reproduce in the manner of spores and their gender is just a matter of children’s entertainment.

Extremely online people find the sweet contention in everything and act accordingly.

As for the [*] I did assume that the target was male because of the content of the writing. But if they were female they are presumably going to be no more or less able to discern the value.

Re: The company I work for is losing all of its humanity, I don't know where to go

#119

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You asked for a thing to research. So go do that and report back. Maybe it’s bullshit. Maybe you’ll do some research, be inspired, and change the whole world. I dunno. I’m not an economist… have you asked an economist? Edited to add: hey I found a use for AI; here’s a prompt for your favorite model: “What economic systems have humans devised over the course of recorded history?” :)

I did. You implied in your first comment that being against capitalism didn't mean being in favor or socialism, but it is because they're the only modern economic systems. So, I guess I can keep going without changing my mind.

I found more economic systems I wasn’t aware of using the prompt I provided. I can copy paste the results in here but I personally find that insulting and don’t wish to. But I get the feeling you didn’t use it.

Re: The company I work for is losing all of its humanity, I don't know where to go

#120

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What do you mean, allowed to say on this forum? Who is around to stop you from saying what you mean? Is this some kind of dramatic display of your secondary status? What responsibility for you are you asking me to take?

> What do you mean, allowed to say on this forum? This forum is ran by my fellow man, dang, who expects a certain level of decorum and discretion, and it would be ungentlemanly to act otherwise. A Real Man knows to keep his cards close to his chest. It's a violation of the Bro Code to say some stuff out loud, my dude. > What responsibility for you are you asking me to take? I'm asking you to explain what actions you…

This is bizarre and hostile. Be clear or resist the urge to distract.
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