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Databases are not like the mail. Databases are like a bank. If I ask my bank why my account does not reflect my latest deposit and they say 'Sorry, I guess we didn't get it', I'm getting a new bank.
...and if you're building a banking app, that's relevant. If you're building a chat system, maybe things other than data integrity matter more.
And the flaw of your argument: Even if there are other more important things for an application, let's just make anything else than the #1 feature shit.