I think the "software doesn't wear out" assumption is just a conceivable excuse for the underlying "we do not question" assumption. A piece of software can be like a beautiful poem, but the kind of software most people are familiar with is more like a whole lot of small automated bureaucracies.
Bureaucracy being (per Graeber 2006) something like the ritual where by means of a set of pre-fashioned artifacts for each other's sake we all operate at 2% of our normal mental capacities and that's how modern data-driven, conflict-averse societies organize work and distribute resources without anyone being able to have any complaints listened to.
>Bureaucracies public and private appear—for whatever historical reasons—to be organized in such a way as to guarantee that a significant proportion of actors will not be able to perform their tasks as expected. It also exemplifies what I have come to think of the defining feature of a utopian form of practice, in that, on discovering this, those maintaining the system conclude that the problem is not with the system itself but with the inadequacy of the human beings involved.
Most places where a computer system is involved in the administration of a public service or something of the caliber, has that been a grassroots effort, hey computers are cool and awesome let's see what they change? No, it's something that's been imposed in the definitive top-down manner of XX century bureaucracies. Remember the cohort of people who used to become stupid the moment a "thinking machine" was powered within line of sight (before the last uncomputed generation retired and got their excuse to act dumb for the rest of it)? Consider them in view the literally incomprehensible number of layers that any "serious" piece of software consists of; layers which we're stuck producing more of, when any software professional knows the best kind of software is less of it.
But at least it saves time and the forest, right? Ironically, getting things done in a bureaucratic context with less overhead than filling out paper forms or speaking to human beings, makes them even easier to fuck up. And then there's the useful fiction of "the software did it" that e.g. "AI agents" thing is trying to productize. How about they just give people a liability slider in the spinup form, eh, but nah.
Wanna see a miracle? A miracle is when people hype each other into pretending something impossible happened. To the extent user-operated software is involved in most big-time human activities, the daily miracle is how it seems to work well enough, for people to be able to pretend it works any good at all. Many more than 3 such cases. But of course remembering the catastrophal mistakes of the past can be turned into a quaint fun-time activity. Building things that empower people to make less mistakes, meanwhile, is a little different from building artifacts for non-stop "2% time".