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Amit Gupta hasn't found a marrow transplant match; today's your last chance.

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Re: Amit Gupta hasn't found a marrow transplant match; today's your last chance.

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No, this is not FUD. This is a proxy for a pattern of behavior (unprotected sex with the same sex, sharing of needles, etc). They ask you these questions as a primary filter for determining who is at risk of transferring a disease. We still don't know everything about how the disease is transferred, but we know which behavior patterns lead to it. And regarding the 1978 date, we still don't even know how long HIV can…

Your grand-grandparent post quite emphatically is FUD. Being MSM is positively correlated with a pattern of behaviour that elevates risk of HIV. So is being a college student. So is serial monogamy. So is being a heterosexual male. Singling out one of these while making no attempt to break down the diverse group MSM by further detailing high-risk behaviour and black-marking it with an ominous question like "Do you re…

MainStream Media?

Re: Amit Gupta hasn't found a marrow transplant match; today's your last chance.

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post #88

Since I'm still gay, I'm not allowed to help, no matter how many times you ask. I get why they do this and I shouldn't let it bother me, but emotionally it feels the same as if they just said, "Please become a donor, nohomo." edit: Of course I still wish the very best for Amit.

Some progress has been made, in the UK now the (blood) ban only effects men who've had sex with men in the past 12 months, which is better.

How do they enforce this?

Re: Amit Gupta hasn't found a marrow transplant match; today's your last chance.

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Since I'm still gay, I'm not allowed to help, no matter how many times you ask. I get why they do this and I shouldn't let it bother me, but emotionally it feels the same as if they just said, "Please become a donor, nohomo." edit: Of course I still wish the very best for Amit.

I'm not sure why they wouldn't allow some form of in-person registration accompanied by an STD screen at a clinic for people who they are eliminating now for being too "high-risk"?

The marrow guys could even cover the cost of the STD screen for people who register for the program.

Seems to me this would be an even safer way of ensuring potential donors don't have HIV than just asking them about their sex lives...

Re: Amit Gupta hasn't found a marrow transplant match; today's your last chance.

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post #100

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Your grand-grandparent post quite emphatically is FUD. Being MSM is positively correlated with a pattern of behaviour that elevates risk of HIV. So is being a college student. So is serial monogamy. So is being a heterosexual male. Singling out one of these while making no attempt to break down the diverse group MSM by further detailing high-risk behaviour and black-marking it with an ominous question like "Do you re…

MainStream Media?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MSM_blood_donor_controversy http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_who_have_sex_with_men

Re: Amit Gupta hasn't found a marrow transplant match; today's your last chance.

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post #88

Since I'm still gay, I'm not allowed to help, no matter how many times you ask. I get why they do this and I shouldn't let it bother me, but emotionally it feels the same as if they just said, "Please become a donor, nohomo." edit: Of course I still wish the very best for Amit.

Some progress has been made, in the UK now the (blood) ban only effects men who've had sex with men in the past 12 months, which is better.

Interesting, as a former, non-gay, UK resident, I'm not allowed to give blood in the US, even though I was allowed to obtain a green-card, and screened for HIV by a US doctor in London.

I believed at the time this was due to the UK CJD scare. Can anyone confirm?

My gf at the time, also reported being denied the opportunity to give blood, after declaring on the form that she was in a relationship with a UK national.

Re: Amit Gupta hasn't found a marrow transplant match; today's your last chance.

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Better be in jail but alive (with free health care btw.) then dead. You could do the procedure overseas.

The contract wouldn't be enforceable.

You could hire a trusted middle man.

Re: Amit Gupta hasn't found a marrow transplant match; today's your last chance.

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post #88

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Some progress has been made, in the UK now the (blood) ban only effects men who've had sex with men in the past 12 months, which is better.

How do they enforce this?

They don't/can't.

Re: Amit Gupta hasn't found a marrow transplant match; today's your last chance.

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post #71

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- Much of the reason for the secondary contact information is to ensure that if you are a match they have multiple ways to find you. - You may be a match for someone ten years down the line. Odds are that you won't be in exactly the same place with the exact same contact information. - It costs about $100 to do the analysis on each test. Therefore, if you provide additional information that may in some ways be redund…

I would strongly suggest that they have the courtesy of stating their intention when asking for all that information. It's not difficult. People are showing up to help and are then subjected to what seems like an interrogation. Even the most helpful soul would raise her eyebrows a few times. I'm not saying that the information is irrelevant, but each question is there for a reason, why not just state what it is? You…

At risk of sounding like an asshole, donating your bone marrow is a pretty damn big deal. What use is a bone marrow "lead" if the person runs the other direction when asked for their SSN.

Re: Amit Gupta hasn't found a marrow transplant match; today's your last chance.

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post #113

Since I'm still gay, I'm not allowed to help, no matter how many times you ask. I get why they do this and I shouldn't let it bother me, but emotionally it feels the same as if they just said, "Please become a donor, nohomo." edit: Of course I still wish the very best for Amit.

I'm not sure why they wouldn't allow some form of in-person registration accompanied by an STD screen at a clinic for people who they are eliminating now for being too "high-risk"? The marrow guys could even cover the cost of the STD screen for people who register for the program. Seems to me this would be an even safer way of ensuring potential donors don't have HIV than just asking them about their sex lives...

HIV doesn't show up immediately (possibly other STDs are the same, not sure off the top of my head), if I remember correctly most people will test positive within 3 months of being infected.

Re: Amit Gupta hasn't found a marrow transplant match; today's your last chance.

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I am a bit curious. How exactly is the procedure of marrow transplant carried out?

It's moderately ugly. General anaesthesia and a needle into a big bone. Lots of detail here:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hematopoietic_stem_cell_transpl...

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