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No. This is well paid but not out of the ordinary for someone working at a top tier tech company in NYC/SF Bay Area. Think Facebook, Apple, etc. see https://www.levels.fyi/ for levels and comparison. Some of those companies are doing hiring freezes right now but many are not. Salary bands are adjusted within the USA by zones where NYC/SF/Seattle are zone 1, zone 2 is 90% of base, zone 3 is 85%. With equity component…
This is extremely out of the ordinary- Levels.fyi lists a salary of $224,000 for a Staff level SWE at Google
Ask for what you can get and realize that you are worth more than you realize in the right situation. And never begrudge a peer who earns a lot.