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Falling five storeys from a New York rooftop changed my life

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Re: Falling five storeys from a New York rooftop changed my life

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> The meaning is clearly that there shouldn't be a gaping hole on the top of a 5 story building that people can access. Or at least that you shouldn't walk around a building you're not familiar with at night. Looking at the pictures, I'd vote for another option. The roof of that building isn't designed for casual use. The wall around the edge of the building is calf-height with no railing. What they're doing is likel…

How do you know it's calf height? Did I miss that in this classically drawn out prose? There's a picture with him leaning over a ~4 foot high ledge. That ledge wasn't it?

There is a picture with him sitting down on the ledge next to where he fell. The top of the wall is below his knees.

https://static.ffx.io/images/$zoom_0.221%2C$multiply_2.7195%...

Re: Falling five storeys from a New York rooftop changed my life

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I don't understand how he takes no meaning out of this. The meaning is clearly that there shouldn't be a gaping hole on the top of a 5 story building that people can access. Or at least that you shouldn't walk around a building you're not familiar with at night. Anyone who thinks there's no meaning to take from these kind of events is wasting a huge opportunity to learn that small things like a gap in a roof can mean…

This is thoughtful but stupid because it goes in the wrong direction - new York is already at being close to the pinnacle of protecting people from their own stupidity so to speak - does this person take zero responsibility for ambling in the dark on an unknown terrace without looking _while_ drunk? When do we tell people they are just clumsy and need to own up to it? Many new york rooftops are closed for this reason…

Also in Amsterdam - canals mostly have no railings along their canals to prevent people from falling in.

I heard a story that dead bodies of men kept getting found in the canals with alcohol in their blood and their flies undone. As you can probably guess, intoxicated men were attempting to urinate in the canals and ended up falling in and drowning. Rather than building railings, they built more public urinals.

Re: Falling five storeys from a New York rooftop changed my life

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My father served in the 8th Air Force at a time when the odds of completing a tour were about 20%. The airmen had various ways of coping with this, my father's way was to simply accept that he wasn't going to make it and just do his job as best he could. He told me that after the war, whenever he felt down, he'd think about what a miracle it was he survived, and would feel better. He lived to be 93.

Interestingly, the way the survivors have reckoned with it in the past 10-15 years at the end of their life was to build a number of monuments to their units at the 8th air force museum in Georgia. It's worth a visit.

As an old man, my dad was the beneficiary of a lot of love lavished on WW2 servicemen. He loved it. When you have the chance to say a kind word to a combat vet, be assured they'll appreciate it.

Re: Falling five storeys from a New York rooftop changed my life

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From the end of the article: > To come so close to death does not provide a shortcut to wisdom or contentment. It doesn’t answer all your questions or eliminate your weaknesses. I’m fundamentally the same person I was before, but with one big difference. I’m viscerally aware how tenuous our existence is. How you can be walking on solid ground only to find it suddenly disappear from beneath you. The meaning comes in w…

I’m reminded of the film The Game (1997), but I won’t say more as to not spoil anything for anyone.

Its been 23 years I think the embargo on spoilers is up.

Re: Falling five storeys from a New York rooftop changed my life

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I don't understand how he takes no meaning out of this. The meaning is clearly that there shouldn't be a gaping hole on the top of a 5 story building that people can access. Or at least that you shouldn't walk around a building you're not familiar with at night. Anyone who thinks there's no meaning to take from these kind of events is wasting a huge opportunity to learn that small things like a gap in a roof can mean…

This is thoughtful but stupid because it goes in the wrong direction - new York is already at being close to the pinnacle of protecting people from their own stupidity so to speak - does this person take zero responsibility for ambling in the dark on an unknown terrace without looking _while_ drunk? When do we tell people they are just clumsy and need to own up to it? Many new york rooftops are closed for this reason…

He's just an idiot as far as I'm concerned.

Re: Falling five storeys from a New York rooftop changed my life

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post #115

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This is thoughtful but stupid because it goes in the wrong direction - new York is already at being close to the pinnacle of protecting people from their own stupidity so to speak - does this person take zero responsibility for ambling in the dark on an unknown terrace without looking _while_ drunk? When do we tell people they are just clumsy and need to own up to it? Many new york rooftops are closed for this reason…

He's just an idiot as far as I'm concerned.

Idiot only if he didn't learn from it. No one needs to be chastized for one momentary lapse in judgement, as long as they own up to it.

Re: Falling five storeys from a New York rooftop changed my life

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I had an accident last year, much less scary but required a trip to a level 1 trauma ward and brain surgery with over a month in the hospital.

I remember well the daily list of questions - what day is it? Where are you? Who's the president? It took me a while to realize that these questions were a quick way to evaluate your mental health. I shudder to think how many times I got them wrong. I was so proud when I realized that my room had a whiteboard where they wrote the date every day, and all I had to do to was look to know what day it was. I told the nurse, feeling like I was cheating, but they didn't care - I guess if I had the mental capacity to figure that out it was good enough for them.

Re: Falling five storeys from a New York rooftop changed my life

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I find it bonkers that the surgeon had no prior involvement in reviewing the case before the patient is brought into the operating room. That's really scary.

Requiring a surgeon's consultation before scheduling seems like it would be a huge hassle to arrange, and greatly reduce the amount of surgeries they could perform. Beyond that, I'm not sure what benefit there would be to a surgeon independently reviewing the case early. Thinking about what they'll need you do in tomorrow's surgery would distract them during today's surgery.

When I had cancer surgery, it was the surgeon (literally "the consulant") who consulted with me. He looked at the scan with me and explained my diagnosis and prognosis. We had at least one more meeting before the surgery, and I still see him every year for follow up (I think he's cutting me loose next year after six years - I will miss him he's a nice guy). Isn't this how it normally goes?

Re: Falling five storeys from a New York rooftop changed my life

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The most pressing issue for the orthopaedic team was my left shoulder, which was visibly dislocated. Before attempting to reattach it, the doctor told me I would be given a dose of fentanyl: an opioid that is up to 100 times more potent than morphine. He went away, returned and started using a bed sheet to try to pop the shoulder back into the socket. Alarmed, I told him that I had not been given any pain medication.…

This is just bad medical care, assuming the description is correct. Even if they had been given the pain meds, you move the shoulder slightly to see how well the pain medicine is working, if it’s not working well enough (= patient shows evidence of significant pain), you give more pain medicine. But it’s hard to get to some level of analgesia that can control the peak of the pain that will happen during joint reducti…

What happens to the doctor in cases like this? Seems like a slam dunk medical malpractice lawsuit but then again it's just one word against another and damages are hard to prove since pain is only experienced in the moment.
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