The conversation in this thread has made me wonder after reading it if anyone uses Apache2 as their webserver anymore. Edit: seems many still do! I thought it was dying slowly as php popularity was going down.
There are also far fewer bugs and updates to the Apache core. I rarely have to recompile anything.
I have also had many frustrating interactions with the lead developer of NGinx. There are many assumptions made and many things hard coded in the Makefile, especially as it pertains to pcre, zlib, openssl and CFLAGS, LDFLAGS, etc. Also, I can't just point to existing pcre and zlib deployments for inclusion. NGinx wants the source and to recompile the extra libraries each time.