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“Be yourself” is terrible advice

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Re: “Be yourself” is terrible advice

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

One thing I've found again and again is that a lot of advice is good for some people (even most people) but terrible for others. It all depends where you're starting.

What is an example of a person for whom this is terrible advice? I can only jokingly think of people who are naturally hostile or low on EQ. "They can't handle all this!" kind of people.

People who won't understand it, like many literalist commenters here, and the author of the article who took it as an excuse to continue acting like a solipsistic child

Re: “Be yourself” is terrible advice

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Better advice is "Know yourself." That implies the need to develop the ability to step outside of yourself and examine your behavior, desires, assumptions, and reactions. I say "develop the ability" because for many people, this is not an innate ability, but has to be learned. It also required brutal honesty. Some people cannot do it.

Yes! Great talk on that subject here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2eWOqz_mJ0

Umm... that is a song by Drake, and is incoherent nonsense. I assume you meant to link to something else?
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