Earlier quoted context omitted.
Given there have been no detections of individual gravitons, saying it's a spin-2 gauge boson is speculation at best (though it might be what the model predicts)
If it weren't, general relativity would be wrong as well and we know that (in its domain of applicability) it's a highly accurate model. GR models gravity as fluctuations in the metric tensor of spacetime, which is a symmetric rank-2 tensor. This is all you need to know to conclude that a graviton (a quantize fluctation of that tensor) must be spin-2. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Graviton mentions "[I]t can be shown…
IANAP, and don't get the full picture. But isn't that definition itself derived by the fact that gravity has a single polarity?