- Firstly, there are a bunch of false points here. The HN user ones_and_zeros lives in an alternate reality where H-1B visa holders cannot switch jobs to other companies (that are willing to transfer their H-1B visa). The fact is most tech companies will do a visa transfer. Yet, this facetious lie is oft-repeated on HN, and with attaching terms like "slavery" or "corporate welfare" (which is frankly, offensive). - Se…
The internet has an evil-genius ability to push all our buttons and drive us all crazy. There often isn't enough information to know for sure what anyone else means or intends, and imagination—drawn from our personal experience, i.e. data about us, not the other—fills in the gaps. This happens especially when strong feelings come up. At that point we start responding not to the real others, whom we have next to no data about, but to evil cartoon characters who vaguely resemble them. We end up feeling surrounded by our own demons.
The way out of this dynamic is for all of us to give one another the benefit of the doubt. It's a big risk, so we all need to be scrupulous about it.
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