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Solving the Dating Problem with the SENPAI Protocol [pdf]

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Re: Solving the Dating Problem with the SENPAI Protocol [pdf]

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This already exists, it is called flirting. Given two socially well adjusted participants it allows either party to back down without hurting the other parties feelings and allows everyone to save face. The person escalating the flirtation doesn't feel bad because they aren't outright denied and the respondee isn't put in the awkward situation of having to deny someone. It also has the added benefit of allowing each…

Flirting has a high signal to noise ratio. There are also many issues with unintentional signalling.

That's the whole point. The noise provides plausible deniability.

Re: Solving the Dating Problem with the SENPAI Protocol [pdf]

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It is for people that aren't socially adept (which one can learn btw) and this is of course also one important criteria for sexual selection. My view is that it is not in the interest of women (who mostly do the selecting while men do the approaching) to use a process for selection that obfuscates if the approaching person is socially adept or not. It is maybe just my experience, but generally women do know which men…

Do you have a set of suggested resources for learning to be social adept. Its too late for me, but I am hoping to teach it on to my version 2.0 systems.

Try practice?

Re: Solving the Dating Problem with the SENPAI Protocol [pdf]

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You might as well argue that the SENPAI paper implies that people who aren't comfortable with homomorphic encryption shouldn't get to date.

>who aren't comfortable with homomorphic encryption shouldn't get to date. It's 2016, homophobia should be shunned anyway.

It would have been funny, had you written Homomorphobia.
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