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Maybe I don't understand the problem, but it seems to me that it would be very simple for apple to prevent the popup messages at their discretion, since they write and control the software that causes the popup to happen in the first place.
They would have to update the OS on the device first. And that's definitely not something that can be done silently. I'm assuming here that the OS already doesn't have the ability to suppress the popup, and I think that's a safe assumption because Apple doesn't want to have this ability.
I don't think Apple would want that capability either, but just for argument's sake.