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>#1 is cheapest, but ties the family down to where the grandparents are. Both parent jobs need to be located relatively close by. Also, it's kind of shitty to your parents. Is watching your kid from 9-5 on weekdays really what they wanted to retire for?
Um, yes? It is bizarre how unaware some folks are of how human civilization has been organized for centuries.
So what exactly was the point of the colossal developments in human productivity in the last ten decades?
So we can continue to function as desperately as our ancestors whilst a few people have more money and power than we can possibly imagine? Fucking great.