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I'm a Tech Lead, and nobody listens to me. What should I do?

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Re: I'm a Tech Lead, and nobody listens to me. What should I do?

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I've been tech lead at different companies. Every time I switched companies, I started out as senior dev and got promoted into the team lead role again; each time with full support of my team. I don't look or act like a leader and this has been a hurdle for me. But what typically happens anyway is; within a few months, my code ends up being a core part of the project; my modules become heavily depended upon and someh…

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Re: I'm a Tech Lead, and nobody listens to me. What should I do?

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Often each API route will have its own handler function. That function will - usually through many layers of indirection and abstraction - launch queries towards your database.

That describe a REST API implementation design, but doesn't really answer the particular question: How is the scoping implemented, i.e. how would any given Rust REST API framework couple a Db transaction to a HTTP scope. I mean, I know how that would look like if the framework ofered you no abstraction or DI whatsoever . You would pass the transaction (and maybe database handle) through all sorts of functions, create…

Axum is the most popular web library out there, and sqlx the most popular sql library. Together they look something like this: https://github.com/tokio-rs/axum/blob/main/examples%2Fsqlx-p...

Re: I'm a Tech Lead, and nobody listens to me. What should I do?

#104
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It's some low-risk/consequence project/initiative that is designed to receive people that will be fired due to lack of compliance and/or collaboration with the new management. Once we had a German colleague that was not so collaborative in sharing the knowledge about some specific parts of the application, and the Tech lead replaced her MacBook with a Windows 10, and she only can write PRs related with DocStrings.

This seems kind of childish to be honest. Why not just fire the person?

I mean I'd guess it was because it's somewhere with a higher bar to firing. Redundancy or dismissal are both much more complicated (expensive) than simply making it very clear you'd like someone to leave.

Re: I'm a Tech Lead, and nobody listens to me. What should I do?

#105
post #81

I still remember when my previous employer has lost domain for like 3 months. Boss and his business partner have setup company and I have joined later. Business partner left. - I was trying to figure out who have access to domain X? It is not on AWS and by whois it is under some random registrar in Europe. I got just shrug from boss. Everything works so why bother? - After 3 years of scratching my head and try to rep…

>And I am just raging in my office because I was trying to prevent this situation for 3 years to no avail...... My take away from this is that you can't change the culture. This happens a lot in large company. And isn't just a singular case or a company, but any organisation or even countries. Just look at governments around the world. You cant help those who dont want to be helped. The biggest problem of any problem…

IDK, I think this is too negative a take. It's easy to blame those in charge for not realising that your problem was the important one but ... how many problems were they being presented with?

Sure, in this instance, they prioritised the wrong problems. But perhaps the case wasn't made clearly enough to make it apparent why this was as big a deal as it was.

Re: I'm a Tech Lead, and nobody listens to me. What should I do?

#108
The trust equation implicitly assumes honesty. It’s a second-order model: it explains how trust forms among good-faith actors, not how to detect bad ones.

Credibility, reliability, and intimacy all collapse without honesty — you can simulate them briefly, but they’re structurally unstable. Once dishonesty is detected, self-orientation effectively goes to infinity and trust snaps to zero.

So the equation is a trust amplifier, not a lie detector. Useful for healthy teams, dangerous if applied naively in adversarial or performative environments.

Re: I'm a Tech Lead, and nobody listens to me. What should I do?

#109
post #81

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>And I am just raging in my office because I was trying to prevent this situation for 3 years to no avail...... My take away from this is that you can't change the culture. This happens a lot in large company. And isn't just a singular case or a company, but any organisation or even countries. Just look at governments around the world. You cant help those who dont want to be helped. The biggest problem of any problem…

IDK, I think this is too negative a take. It's easy to blame those in charge for not realising that your problem was the important one but ... how many problems were they being presented with? Sure, in this instance, they prioritised the wrong problems. But perhaps the case wasn't made clearly enough to make it apparent why this was as big a deal as it was.

I think Occam's razor explains this: the majority of people are incompetent.

People get to positions of power through many means and very few of those are related to competence. Be it nepotism, boot licking, friendship, inheritance, people failing upwards or just plain luck, these all lead to the same result: incompetent people making decisions.

Add to that the fact that it's very easy to hide incompetency in large organizations and we have the perfect recipe for these kinds of disasters.

Even on small organizations this is common. I've seen plenty of incompetent people getting funding for startups making all the wrong decisions. They're good at selling some BS to investors and that's about it, but now they're at the helm of an organization with people under them. Another good example is people opening businesses from their successes in other areas (I made money here, now let me open a restaurant with zero experience in this industry) or even out of their parent's pockets.

Incompetence is almost always the culprit.

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