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Re: How to delete your Facebook account

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I deleted my Facebook account back in 2015. I was in high school and going through a deep depression/mental break down. I remember feeling so much relief as the days went on. I don't think I was ever designed to handle social media properly. I doubt I'm the only one either.

no one is designed to handle social media at scale. Our brains are calibrated to express empathy at different levels for finite numbers of people who are of a given proximity to us (emotionally and physically) — e.g. the smaller and closer the group, the more capable of empathy (and thus worthy of exposure to nuanced feelings and more frequent exposure) we are.

Being bombarded with the thoughts and takes (especially when distorted in content and exposure frequency by an ad platform disguised as a social media site) of thousands of people — only a few of whom you can possibly know closely — is a recipe for mass psychosis.

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How do you know? Occam's razor suggest that the fact checkers did indeed veer too far left of the American public.

From here, Occam’s razor suggest that big companies want to be cozy with the new president, so they can continue getting what they want. Money doesn’t care about wings.

That new president was elected by most Americans, and had 'get men out of womens sports' as an official part of their platform.

Re: How to delete your Facebook account

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How do you know? Occam's razor suggest that the fact checkers did indeed veer too far left of the American public.

> Occam's razor * Trump has explicitly threatened to jail Mark Zuckerberg [1] * Trump has threatened to use the justice system against his enemies * Trump's 'best mate' (who's about to get a job in government) owns a rival social network * Facebook banned Trump over the Jan 6th insurrection * Trump could use the banning of TikTok as leverage With all that Occam's Razor tells you that an authoritarian leader is taking…

"Donald Trump threatens to imprison Mark Zuckerburg for 'rest of his life' if 'he does anything illegal' over election"

Lying through omission. The rest isn't worth responding to.

Re: How to delete your Facebook account

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post #102

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From here, Occam’s razor suggest that big companies want to be cozy with the new president, so they can continue getting what they want. Money doesn’t care about wings.

That new president was elected by most Americans, and had 'get men out of womens sports' as an official part of their platform.

Errm, history is full of bad leaders who were elected by people and by democratic means. I won’t start a list here, but their effects on our world is pretty profound.

So, being elected is by no means an indicator of any sort.

Re: How to delete your Facebook account

#105
I deleted my Facebook account years ago and recently tried to re-create a new one. I had to use a different email address but even after doing so and sending them a picture of me as requested, they won't let me re-create an account. Apparently my brand new account that I never used doesn't adhere to their community standards about the integrity of accounts.

I asked them to review their decision and it was a NO... and there are no other remedies.

Re: How to delete your Facebook account

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post #102

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That new president was elected by most Americans, and had 'get men out of womens sports' as an official part of their platform.

Errm, history is full of bad leaders who were elected by people and by democratic means. I won’t start a list here, but their effects on our world is pretty profound. So, being elected is by no means an indicator of any sort.

Nobody in this thread is stating that Trump is either good or bad, that is a straw man you have created to argue with.

Being elected is obviously an indicator of the will of the people. The platform that leader was elected on includes items that went against the left leaning of third-party so-called fact checking services. This is easily variable by looking at the platform of the winning party and the policies of the so-called fact checkers.

Re: How to delete your Facebook account

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post #106

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Errm, history is full of bad leaders who were elected by people and by democratic means. I won’t start a list here, but their effects on our world is pretty profound. So, being elected is by no means an indicator of any sort.

Nobody in this thread is stating that Trump is either good or bad, that is a straw man you have created to argue with. Being elected is obviously an indicator of the will of the people. The platform that leader was elected on includes items that went against the left leaning of third-party so-called fact checking services. This is easily variable by looking at the platform of the winning party and the policies of the…

> Nobody in this thread is stating that Trump is either good or bad

That's true, incl. me.

> that is a straw man you have created to argue with.

Did I said or implied Trump is bad? No. What I said is, being elected is not an indicator of goodness of badness of a leader, and said that there's a large list, without giving any names, because goodness and badness is subjective.

> Being elected is obviously an indicator of the will of the people.

Yes. That part is true, too. People wanted that particular flavor this time, and will decide whether they liked the experience or not.

> The platform that leader was elected on includes items that went against the left leaning of third-party so-called fact checking services.

"So-called" from your perspective, so from that point on your opinions are biased, and there's no point on arguing any further.

Of course you're free to vote for whoever you want, and AFAICS, the person you support has won. Congrats. My only hope is what you get in the end won't be more than what you bargained for.

BTW, on that "getting men out of women's sports" thing, watch this video [0]. In the end, performance is enhanced so much, the gap between genders are closed nevertheless. On the other hand, gender in Olympic games are determined with genetic testing anyway, so your looks doesn't have any effect on whom you compete with.

Maybe we should prevent this in the future, so humans can compete with their true potential, not with "monstrous performances" enabled by designer drugs and doping. So there's a whole forest running when people are looking to the wrong tree.

[0]: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2op5XG7LGkI

Re: How to delete your Facebook account

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Part of the pushback is because they are still dictating what you can say except for some very particular exceptions which give away their true intentions. You're still not allowed to call someone mentally ill as an insult, unless you're doing it homophobically or transphobically, in which case it's now explicitly allowed. https://bsky.app/profile/esqueer.net/post/3lf72fz3fas22 If they'd removed that rule altogether…

Yup. The line about the "non serious usage of 'weird'" is another blatant sign of their true intentions. There's no reason to specify that unless you're upset over it because it was used against conservatives.

Zuckerberg, Musk, Thiel, that Vader without a helmet looking Google bro Schmidt? Super fucking weird people. And not in a good way.

Re: How to delete your Facebook account

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>Is there an "are we dating the same guy?" group for every city? Sure I believe that. Do 100% of those groups commit Doxing? Well, that I'm not so sure of. That is literally the point of the group. They are violating the privacy of users on the regular, whether or not they actually give out whole names, addresses, or whatever. This WAS widely reported. >Also, if you read closely you might be confused like I was. Defa…

Even if you believe that women sharing notes with each other is "petty and toxic", just think of it as an incentive for men to behave themselves appropriately. There wouldn't be any need for or interest in such groups if there wasn't such a problem overall. Keep in mind that this is the sex responsible for over 95% of violence, sexual assault and rape. Is it any wonder women are being cautious while seeking out a par…

>Even if you believe that women sharing notes with each other is "petty and toxic", just think of it as an incentive for men to behave themselves appropriately.

You don't know what it's like to be a man. Some women are crazy, and their word is taken by default. You can double that effect easily by not giving the guy a chance to find out or issue a defense. I'm quite sure a lot of the complaints are based on practically nothing. Stuff like the guys fashion sense, choice of venue, what he talked about or didn't talk about, politics, "He told us different things about X" (nevermind opinions change and people tell white lies to get along), and private matters shared with ONE other person. Guys aren't trying to broadcast their life on a billboard just to get laid, OK?

>There wouldn't be any need for or interest in such groups if there wasn't such a problem overall. Keep in mind that this is the sex responsible for over 95% of violence, sexual assault and rape. Is it any wonder women are being cautious while seeking out a partner?

Being cautious is one thing. Spreading vicious rumors and making fun of people secretly with much of the dating population is another. Any real safety problem can get a user banned from an app, and the police might be interested if there's anything more than a hunch to justify the claim.

I think my really long comment in response to someone else in this thread explains the expectation of privacy very well. Women expect privacy, often to the point of not giving out real names or phone numbers. Guys have many of the same actual issues with that. A psycho woman can set your car on fire, kill your dog, get you robbed by her drug dealer, etc.

It would be interesting to see where people draw the line. Do you think it's cool to record the date and upload it to the group? Because that is technically legal in some places, and it is toxic behavior. Now what if you transcribe it and post that instead? What they do in spreading rumors is not far from either of those things.

Re: How to delete your Facebook account

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post #106

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Nobody in this thread is stating that Trump is either good or bad, that is a straw man you have created to argue with. Being elected is obviously an indicator of the will of the people. The platform that leader was elected on includes items that went against the left leaning of third-party so-called fact checking services. This is easily variable by looking at the platform of the winning party and the policies of the…

> Nobody in this thread is stating that Trump is either good or bad That's true, incl. me. > that is a straw man you have created to argue with. Did I said or implied Trump is bad? No. What I said is, being elected is not an indicator of goodness of badness of a leader, and said that there's a large list, without giving any names, because goodness and badness is subjective. > Being elected is obviously an indicator o…

> Did I said or implied Trump is bad

Yes, you wrote history is full of bad leaders. Nobody is discussing whether Trump is good or bad.

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