OMG it feels so good to not be the lone voice in the woods. I would say about 3/4 of my frustrations as a user are from sites that should have simply been built with HTML + CSS and minimal Javascript. The front end community most days feels like a jobs program.
You aren't alone, I'm a technical director and even I can't win this battle. We have a ton of complexity on what could be a simple SSR site, but frontend devs don't like writing anything but SPAs, so it's hard to change.
But I'm not really sure how we're going to handle that or who we'll hire for it, because I fear we'll end up with another react-soup. My current strategy is to make a MVP in my spare time to show it can be done and that it'll be quite nice.